A wedding night sex is something that every newly wed couple must go through. Whether this is going to be your first sex ever or this is not going to be something new, the truth is it is going to be your first night sex as a husband and wife. When you are about to go through your first night, don’t rush and don’t panic. Let’s go through the 9 tips that I’ve prepare for you to equip yourself for the night.
1. Discuss about your wedding night
Don’t be shy to talk about your wedding night sex. Be opened with each other. Perhaps you want to have a theme for the night or you want to have a special supper just for the two of you before you have sex. When you exchange ideas with each other, you will have a rough idea on what type of night both of you will go through.
2. Avoid having sex 1 or 2 weeks before wedding
Some people find that hard to be separated from each other but this exactly what you should do, stay away from each other for a couple of weeks. I’m not saying that you cannot see each other, it is just that you must avoid any sexual contact. This is very important because when you go through your first night as a husband and wife, the feeling is totally different. The feeling of wanting each other and the feeling of missing each other will definitely boost your appetite for the night. By not having sex for few weeks you will double the feeling. To make sure you follow this simple rule, do not stay together for the time being. You may move back to your parent’s house or just stay with friends.
3. Try something totally different
Read books, magazines or watch videos to enhance you knowledge. Or maybe you just seek for some useful advice from an expert. This helps you to create some ideas on how to have different sexual techniques.
4. Take things slowly
Do not panic and do not rush. Take you time. Be as romantic as possible. This is to create a good mood and when you have a good mood, you will be happy.
5. Don’t push yourself over the limit
Wedding is very tiresome. We all know that. So if you are so tired and sleepy just discuss with each other that you cannot do anything on the wedding night itself. What you can do is to have your wedding sex in the morning. Remember you want to enjoy each other. When you are so tired just take a rest, do not force yourself.
6. Wear something special
Wear something different, perhaps funny or fancy. Wedding night lingerie definitely can help the mood. I heard wearing a transparent night gown without underwear and bra can be very effective to stimulate the husband. For the husband you have to patient. Role play is very important to bring your wife to the highest level.
7. Set the stage
To create the mood for the night maybe you want to have some candles, CDs and a radio. Just do whatever you think can help to create a good and a happy feeling. If you have your first night at home, just kick your family members out early. Don’t worry, they will understand. If you want to have it in a hotel, put a “do not disturb sign” outside your hotel room.
8. Flirt with each other
Complement each other. Thanking and appreciating each other will increase the feeling of love for each other. Exchange kisses, hug and occasional touches. That will create a mood for the night.
9. Lower your expectations
Since both of you are tired, you can lower down your expectation. Too high expectation when you know you are so tired will spoil everything. You will put yourself into pressure. Just follow your own phase and strength. After all you have the whole life to spend together.